Wednesday, October 03, 2007

LOVE is knowing when to walk away............

For me LOVE is about trust and trust is created by depositing actions in each others emotional Bank Account. Sometimes LOVE is about walking away...much reminded by someone to me when I received this story in my mailbox.

There was once this guy who is very much in love with his girl. This romantic guy folded 1,000 pieces of paper cranes as a gift to his girl. Although, at that time he was just a small fry in his company, his future didn't seem too bright, they were very happy together. Until one day, his girl told him she was going to Paris and will never come back. She also told him that she cannot visualize any future for the both of them, so they went their own ways there and then... Heartbroken, the guy agreed. But when he regained his confidence, he worked hard day and night, slogging his body and mind just to make something out of himself. Finally with all the hard work and the help of friends, this guy had set up his own company..You never fail until you stop trying.

One rainy day, while this guy was driving, he saw an elderly couple sharing an umbrella in the rain walking to some destination. Even with the umbrella, they were still drenched. It didn't take him long to realize they were his girl's parents. With a heart in getting back at them, he drove slowly beside the couple, wanting them to spot him in his luxury sedan. He wanted them to know that he wasn't the same any more; he had his own company, car, condo, etc. He made it! What he saw next confused him, the couple was walking towards a cemetery, and so he got out of his car and followed...and he saw his girl, a photograph of her smiling sweetly as ever at him from her tombstone and he saw his paper cranes right beside her...

Her parents saw him. He asked them why this had happened. They explained, she did not leave for France at all. She was ill with cancer. She had believed that he will make it someday, but she did not want to be his obstacle... therefore she had chosen to leave him.

Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all they have. She had wanted her parents to put his paper cranes beside her, because, if the day comes when fate brings him to her again...he can take some of those back with him... Once you have loved, you will always love. For what's in your mind may escape but what's in your heart will remain forever. The guy just wept...The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside her knowing you can't have her, see her or be with her ever again.........hope you understand.

Find time to realize that there is one person who means so much to you, for you might wake up one morning losing that person who you thought meant nothing to you.

10 comments:

bacin said...

sedih.. (tak leh nangis, nanti batal posa.. kena gi Chili's mkn)

The Editor said...

Tak yah sedih, jom kita celebrate kat rumah Sahzly

Stupid_O said...

emo siot mac...

The Editor said...

Stupid_o: Cheh...aku bukan emo, itu peringatan kepada semua yang kenal atau tidak kenal cinta...muahahahahhah termasuk aku la. Sekiranya ada persamaan samada hidup atau mati, hanya coincidental je.

bola2api said...

ada ke persamaannya, mac?

hihihi

Dancing Ciken said...

...hanya menggunakan nama samaran, hehe

The Editor said...

Bola2api: Ntah..sepatutnye takde la, why?

Ciken:Nama samaran apa pulak ni? Korang cerita macam James Bond la

Ride 2 infinity n beyond said...

yes walking away may be the best option, though its painful, time is the best healer ....
look at it this way, it's still better to be sitting next to that someone, both of you alive, consiuosly knowing you cant have it, but consciously knowing as well that someone is doing well. Sometimes love is about letting go. To love someone doesnt mean that you have to have someone..

"God determines who walks into your life, it is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay and who you refuse to let go.."
p.s. u owe the someone who sent you this dinner hua hahah

Ride 2 infinity n beyond said...

"People come to your life for a reason, a season or a life time. When you know which one it is you will know what to do for that person. When someone is in your life for a reason, it is usually to meet a need you have expressed. The have come to assist you through a difficulty, to provide you with guidance and support, to aid you physically, emotionally or spiritually. The may seem like godsend and they are. They are there for the reason you need them to be. The without any wrongdoing on your part or at an inconvenient time, this person will say or do something to bring the relationship to an end. Sometimes they die, sometimes they walk away. Sometimes they act up and force you to make a stand what we must realized is that our need ahs been met, our desires fulfilled their work is done. The prayer you sent up has been answered and now its time to move on."

p.s. i'm not the author for this but good to share .. makes you think .. there's a reason why someone is only in your life for a season..

The Editor said...

Ride2infinity...: Wah lau ehhh...so profound and emothional. That will teach me a lesson in not putting up anymore emotional post. Muahahahaha